Is anyone having a hard time with their 11 year old boy? - boy friends shower video
I am losing my son. He is 11 and has this attitude. From when the questions are intelligent.
I fought with him, showering, brushing teeth, combing hair, change their clothes or clean his room. I understand that if it could be
their age, but the big problem I do not have his homework. With an honors student in the first year -) in the third, but this year (5. year, the D's.
I'm always trying to talk with his teacher, to understand the problem. We have tried to award a teacher of drawing book, but still do not take home books. He lies and says he has all his school work and the next day on a message to receive the functions of his master.
I have tried to remove all television, video games, computers and friends. This does not seem to work. My husband and I have tried talking to him, tell him why its important to do well in school and why we make war with him in his homework.
In fact, it was a country of their privileges of the week by 5 DETE receivention work in a week and not only called me today from his teacher, who has not done all that is lacking the work and say, sticking in the school, they will not be stupid book, because his work. All the while he was still on the incident based on first!
I think I can spend time bonding with him because I since the time I get home from work, I back at work and do not do their responsibility.
In an interview with him - to punish him - working with the teachers do not seem to help, somebody has an idea?
Monday, January 25, 2010
Boy Friends Shower Video Is Anyone Having A Hard Time With Their 11 Year Old Boy?
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My 11 years was good until I started to take their business and that means, is gone!
ReplyDeleteTake him to a psychologist! There are obviously underlying issues. You need to be paid immediately!
ReplyDeleteThis is my stepson, who is now aged 13 years on probation and a reorganization of the juvenile detention center at all for his disrespectful behavior at school and their qualifications. (And by the way, unfortunately did not have custody of him.)
ReplyDeleteMy advice is to approach it from another angle ... few
-Have advice before and not only the school counselor. Most communities have counseling centers that depend on lower incomes that are, this is a concern. It can be things that he is not willing to talk to their parents.
Let one days prior to departure and the school. It is a day off. Do not buy it or force it to about negative things that happened and try to go and talk about it and have fun. Tell him what you just said that he forgets to have bonding time with him. I know it's in school, but at least it is important that again now.
-When in one of his quieter moments, tell him that you understand, because you are in adolescence to explain (that, if doesn't) you know know that sometimes you feel like you can not control himself. And then I wonder what he would sometimes help if you think talking, you or your father, say for instance: "You know, I do not force yourself to do things if you do not like it and so will not be in peace to live, what can I do to help you do feel in control of yourself and things you need to do? "
"Good job removing privileges. It is a little beyond is not unreasonable, but some may think it is cruel. Explain that each family member has a role to play in the home and in life. You and your husband, all for give it. He has that pop, candy and food to understand that taste good are privileges, not a right. It is wrong for a child, only for vegetables, fruits, fish, pasta / bread and animal feed milk / water After his homework done. A week of food permitted only at the same time that the value makes the task of the week means that out of the weekend, feeding back to you usually eata. If in the next week not to the task, back to basics, until you do.
In addition or instead, you can clean your entire room of everything except the bed. Now, instead of things for the elimination of misconduct, for each 2 days of good behavior. He is back and reap what you do.
"You can try to talk to him for more freedom in areas that might be reluctant in the past as a reward for a meeting at the school.
"Just a word about the physical aspect of things ... studies have shown that children her age need 10 hours sleep. Sure, that this approach allow. In addition, caffeine remains in the body of the child", for up to 8 clock, ie after school, no caffeine. These two things make a big difference in my stepchildren. Nevertheless, I have this but I decline because it helps them.
I believe that the school is no place for anyone struggling with grades .... I know it sounds crazy, but he went to school for your child lately? In most cases, the teachers are running around and trying to upgrade the standards and controls that do not understand, including themselves, who are in overcrowded classrooms with schedules that do not (if they do care) to meet these needs children. " At age 11 he is a world of social pressure. Some girls begin to rules and rather odd about the guys in your own body or the lack of information about the development of H is (most children at this age do not fit into their own skin that they have big feet or a big hand or it makes little awkward).
ReplyDeletethe thing is their responsibility for the task. Let him know that you support him and help him through it. I touched my cork again and found that my son more than 4 hours less than ..... I was could not believe the amount of work, not before surprising that he has given up. Bonding time is more than 11. It takes time to be with their friends ... But when they come to your homeI eat tons of pizza and have the opportunity to visit with them here and there. Men are generally easier to maintain social ... Eating, playing video games, fight again, and not change it, what I have until 40 and do not see much fighting lol. Listen to what he says. It tells you where the problems lie. For my son ... There is bullying at school (and not the kind that you and I have ... they are children of 16 years with the approval of the riders who are still in high school --- After several visits with me, the school I was finally finished in 8th grade so I go --- HS) no lie. Do not expect the superstar he was in elementary school, but ..... to help emphasize their strengths. In addition, specify that it received a certain amount of time to the music that has or will your project .... I mean, they get a tutor or help after school ... are no longer with you. In some cases, children need a guardian, and, although she was in opposition really happy that I committed. It was also easier to say, "my mothermakes me. Are experienced "Finally, what you like or want .... ice skates, hockey, football ... and plans to try it. He can not find a way to work, play, school balance, I am resting, eating, praying, themselves ... but it can be shown how they set limits. ... (teacher and food and they were doing when my kids went through it), but we have this task is beyond a limit of 1 hour .... h homework in middle school and 2 clock in HS and that our best to keep in line. If you can after school for a while can help you eat, take a break and get right So before Bestsellers do not believe that it never ends ... whatever next ... in order to discuss with other PC .... d go to the cinema ..... All the best ....
Let me very directly. He lost his son. This is not quality, hygiene, itchiness or outside of the task. Children can get care, and if not enough positive attention, get it operates as well as negative attention. My son has puberty. He is not handling very well, and if you are in your shoes, you could your parents? It is time to talk less, listen more. You can save some personal sacrifices for his son, nor thy son, lost. This problem is not only just begun. I bet you have not spent much time commitment. Get with it, there is still time. You know you really care, not just something else on your calendar. Kids do not care what you know until they, you know, care. Forget about all the time "quality" BS. Everything is quality, and it has a lot of them, not just in a list. Some of the best moments always speak with your child will be during the daily work. Do not expect to open his heart, if you applied for up to 11 years, children usually do not. Spoiled because theTime and attention (things and no money) you deserve, I say, and what will be done to change things. Open a little and show he is her perfect. Is there another man who can act as a "brother" to the good sense? If so, people quickly get on board. Children in the early stages of puberty often want their distance stepmothers form is normal. Deal with it, not take it personally. Your father needs a stage, a little. If he too busy, that is a good indication of what the real problem with this guy.
ReplyDeleteIt's not desperate by any means. I worked with children for many years, and most of them through (not all the problems, though!). Put your mind to it, you're on a long journey, but it can be executed with some real effort. Good luck to you and your child.
Let me very directly. He lost his son. This is not quality, hygiene, itchiness or outside of the task. Children can get care, and if not enough positive attention, get it operates as well as negative attention. My son has puberty. He is not handling very well, and if you are in your shoes, you could your parents? It is time to talk less, listen more. You can save some personal sacrifices for his son, nor thy son, lost. This problem is not only just begun. I bet you have not spent much time commitment. Get with it, there is still time. You know you really care, not just something else on your calendar. Kids do not care what you know until they, you know, care. Forget about all the time "quality" BS. Everything is quality, and it has a lot of them, not just in a list. Some of the best moments always speak with your child will be during the daily work. Do not expect to open his heart, if you applied for up to 11 years, children usually do not. Spoiled because theTime and attention (things and no money) you deserve, I say, and what will be done to change things. Open a little and show he is her perfect. Is there another man who can act as a "brother" to the good sense? If so, people quickly get on board. Children in the early stages of puberty often want their distance stepmothers form is normal. Deal with it, not take it personally. Your father needs a stage, a little. If he too busy, that is a good indication of what the real problem with this guy.
ReplyDeleteIt's not desperate by any means. I worked with children for many years, and most of them through (not all the problems, though!). Put your mind to it, you're on a long journey, but it can be executed with some real effort. Good luck to you and your child.
What you need to go through all this. I've never had it so bad. See if you can enter counsling that something might happen in the years when I did well. and if not see if some problems for young people. as a training ground. and tell him when to do its job. and take everything away from him until Straight up. smart mouth and put them in Tabasco sauce. or tell him he is in the 5th Year, until he is healthy and all his friends will continue. good luck ..
ReplyDeleteI can not answer it and in me, because .... in an 11 myself ... I hate the work I do not like 2, from the problems of the parents (especially my father), but their right to 1 of the fourth year that I was a good student but not so far ...
ReplyDeleteSorry for you really so difficult, I am very happy, I have a 11yr old and he did not make the task YH always fun, but we have no other choice. I can talk a little, but can not resist, PSP or comp gap has suddenly he has great respect for me and his father, the Earth has generally not modified still problems, but we do everything we can, and with him to sit and listen to his worries.maybe is broken and the work is easy or be bullied at school. Good luck
ReplyDeleteHave you tried talking to him and ask what is the problem? I know that sounds very Leave it to Beaver ", but can give an idea. However, be careful when you do. Children, no information in a" sit down to talk ". What is more likely that they are opened when a to do business. As in basketball or energy or something. Then open sometimes.
ReplyDeleteSome thoughts on why it works this way: "Maybe it's just a normal behavior of pre-pubertal.
Maybe he's not drugs. More and earlier. And are well hidden.
Maybe he has the wrong people in the school.
Perhaps something in their family life going on inside you. Do you and your husband agree that there has been no death or birth or any other change?
Perhaps depressed. If in the family, you want to be there to talk to someone (like a counsler)
I know that parenting is very difficult. I have a 10 years old boy myself. You never know what to do all the time. TrAnd at the bottom of this problem now, because if not worse. Good luck!
HES probably bullied or puberty
ReplyDeleteI have no son, but welcome to the wonderful world of children puberty.Its happened and advice girls.Have tried? Have you undergone a medical examination? It can be influenced by a group of villains.
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